What if December isn’t just about surviving the holidays—but about stepping into the woman God has been preparing you to become all year?
Before the confetti falls and resolutions begin, there’s sacred work to be done. Not the exhausting kind. The clarifying kind.
December carries a unique rhythm. It’s a month where God gently invites us to pause, breathe, and look back with honesty while looking forward with hope. And before the new year comes rushing in, it’s wise to sit with a few heart-checks—simple, intentional reflections that align your faith, finances, and purpose.
These aren’t about perfection. They’re about clarity. About realigning your heart with the One who leads your steps.
Here are seven heart-checks every woman should make space for this month:
1. A Faith Check: “Lord, where have You carried me?”
“I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.” — Psalm 77:11
Before planning anything new, pause and trace God’s fingerprints on your year. Even the hard moments carry evidence of His hand.
Consider journaling:
- What did God teach me this year that I couldn’t have learned any other way?
- Where did I see His faithfulness when I thought I’d fall apart?
- What spiritual habits strengthened me—and which ones quietly slipped away?
- Which prayers did He answer in unexpected ways?
This check restores gratitude. And gratitude restores perspective.
This week: Set aside 20 minutes with your journal. Write down three specific moments where God showed up this year—even in disguise.
2. An Identity Check: “Am I living as the woman God actually called me to be?”
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” — Ephesians 2:10
Life has a way of pulling us into comparison, pressure, and performance. December is a beautiful time to gently ask: Have I been operating from my God-given identity… or from fear, people-pleasing, or survival mode?
Ask yourself:
- Am I chasing a calling or chasing approval?
- Have I been living from my strengths or apologizing for them?
- What version of myself have I been performing—and who does God actually see?
It’s okay if the answer is uncomfortable. Awareness is the first doorway back to alignment.
“Your next level isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about becoming more of who God created you to be all along.”
This week: Write down three things God says about your identity in Scripture. Let those truths replace the narratives you’ve been carrying.
3. A Financial Check: “Does my money reflect my values?”
“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.” — Luke 16:10
Year-end spending can easily become emotional spending. This is a good moment to look at your finances with honesty and grace:
- Did I steward well this year, or did I just survive?
- Did holiday pressure lead to overspending I’ll regret in January?
- Did stress shopping become a coping mechanism?
- Did subscription services quietly drain my account without adding real value?
- What financial patterns does God want me to adjust before the new year?
This is not about guilt. It’s about taking ownership—and inviting God into the numbers.
“Money is a magnifier. It doesn’t change who you are—it reveals who you’ve been becoming.”
This week: Pull up your bank statements from the past three months. Circle three spending patterns that don’t align with your values. Choose one to shift in January.
4. A Purpose Check: “Am I walking in assignment or drifting in busyness?”
“The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.” — Proverbs 21:5
Busyness can give the illusion of progress. But purpose gives direction.
Ask yourself:
- What assignments did God give me this year—the ones that came with peace, not pressure?
- Which ones did I complete with excellence?
- Which ones did I abandon because they got hard or uncomfortable?
- Which ones need new structure, new pace, or firmer boundaries to thrive?
- What have I been saying yes to that God never asked me to carry?
Purpose is not always loud. Sometimes it whispers—requiring stillness to hear clearly again.
“You were never meant to do everything. You were meant to do the few things only you can do—with faithfulness and fire.”
This week: Block 30 minutes to write down the three assignments God gave you this year. Circle the one that needs your attention most in Q1 2026.
5. A Relationship Check: “Who feeds my spirit—and who drains it?”
“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” — Proverbs 13:20
Every woman needs life-givers: people who pray with you, stretch you, cheer you on, and hold you accountable.
This December, evaluate your circle with love and honesty:
- Who helped me grow this year—spiritually, emotionally, professionally?
- Who consistently exhausted me without pouring back in?
- Which relationships brought out the best in me, and which kept me small?
- Which relationships need restoration, honest redefinition, or prayerful release?
- Am I surrounded by faith or by fear?
Not everyone gets access to your next season. Your next season requires new capacity—and protecting that capacity isn’t meanness. It’s wisdom.
Releasing a relationship doesn’t mean unforgiveness. Sometimes love looks like creating distance so both people can grow. Pray for discernment—not everyone who was meant for one season belongs in the next.
“You become like the five people you spend the most time with. Choose them prayerfully.”
This week: Write down the names of your five closest relationships. Ask God to show you who stays, who needs boundaries, and who you need to pursue more intentionally.
6. A Rest Check: “Have I been honoring the body God gave me?”
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
Fatigue affects vision. Many women enter December spiritually charged but physically empty—running on fumes, caffeine, and the fear of disappointing people.
This is the month to slow down:
- Have I been treating my body like a machine or like a temple?
- How many hours of sleep am I actually getting—not what I claim, but what’s real?
- When did I last rest without guilt?
- What activities drain me that I keep saying yes to?
- Where is my body asking for attention that I’ve been ignoring?
Rest is not a reward you earn after you’ve done enough. Rest is stewardship of the body God entrusted to you.
“You can’t pour from an empty cup. And God never asked you to run on empty in the first place.”
This week: Schedule one full day of rest before the year ends. No work. No hustle. Just presence, peace, and the people you love.
7. A Vision Check: “What is God nudging me toward for 2026?”
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” — Jeremiah 29:11
Don’t wait for January 1st to seek clarity. God often speaks loudest when we quiet our lives enough to listen.
Take time to ask:
- What is God calling me to build, release, or step into next year?
- What habits must change to support that vision?
- Who must I become to carry that assignment well?
- What fear is holding me back from believing God for more?
- What would I attempt if I knew God was already making a way?
Let this be a year you walk into with direction—not confusion. With confidence—not comparison. With clarity—not chaos.
“The vision God gives you will always be bigger than your current capacity. That’s how you know it’s from Him.”
This week: Write a one-page letter to yourself dated December 2026. Describe the woman you’ve become, the faith you’ve walked in, and the assignments you’ve completed. Let God speak into that vision.
Closing Encouragement
December is not just a month of lights and holidays. It’s a month of realignment. A moment where God invites you to reset your heart, refine your focus, and rise into the woman He has already prepared you to be.
You don’t need to wait for a new year to become her. You’re already becoming her right now—one brave, aligned choice at a time.
Choose one heart-check to complete this week. Just one. Write it down. Schedule 20 minutes. Bring your journal, your Bible, and your honesty before God.
December’s invitation isn’t to do everything—it’s to do what matters.
Start here. Start now. Start with your heart.
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Which heart-check will you complete first? Share in the comments below—your courage might inspire another woman to take the first step.